There’s nothing wrong with liking sad music, poetry or movies, or self-depreciating humor. We can start guiding them in their journey to self-improvement. There are also some who don’t realize that what they’re doing is already manipulative and mean, and that’s where we can start informing them. But because of how some people are infamous and are experts in being manipulative and controlling behavior, they’ve become generalized as “sad fuckboys”. Sad bois also rely on others to defend them whenever they need, and to “shield” them from confrontation or conflicts that could “hurt” them. They see themselves as the victim and will always play the victim card no matter what the situation. They often run away from it, or worse, even gaslight others into thinking that it wasn’t their fault. Sad bois don’t hold themselves responsible for the times they’ve intentionally/unintentionally hurt others at all. They don’t take accountability for their actions.They also project their sadness towards others in a whole different level. News flash: being a sad boi doesn’t make you into the main character. They make their self-depreciating jokes all about them, and sometimes even think of themselves as the main character in everyone’s lives. But think of Song Kang’s character in Love Alarm as an example.īecause they’re so dramatic, they often turn their ‘sad boi’-ness into their entire personality-their music, art and even poetry preferences. An example of their typical oner-liner: “I’ll just end my life if I can’t be with you” When confronted with their manipulative behavior, these ‘sad bois’ gaslights and guilt trips people into thinking that they didn’t do anything wrong. They use their sadness to manipulate others to get what they want. ![]() People paint sad bois in a negative light for three reasons:īecause people see them as sensitive and “in touch” with their emotions, some ‘sad bois’ often use this to their advantage. So yeah, they could literally be anywhere or anybody at this point. In, they wrote that sad bois “can be musicians, skaters, Tumblr bloggers, E-boys, soft boys, art boys, or any other type of boy”.
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